“Watching my mom's condition deteriorate was hard on all of us. It helped to know that we could help her keep a sense of dignity. We were able to help her do what she needed to do before she died.”

Susan, 52, daughter of Joyce, 77

Some symptoms are from the cancer itself. Other problems may be caused by treatments they take to fight the cancer. This is true for those who are cured of their cancer and for those who are not. For those who aren't cured, these symptoms usually grow worse in the months and weeks before they die.

People with cancer may:

• Feel pain.
• Have a hard time breathing.
• Feel nausea.
• Feel anxious, worried, or confused.

People with cancer should be able to get care for these and other problems. They and their families should have support to get through the difficult times they may face.

Treating symptoms and lessening the burdens on families allows patients to:

• Keep a sense of control.
• Relieve old conflicts in their lives.
• Strengthen ties with their loved ones.
• Deal with spiritual matters.