Grapevine is among the fruit crops with high economic value, and because of the economic losses caused by abiotic stresses, the stress resistance of Vitis vinifera has become an increasingly important research area. Among the mechanisms responding to environmental stresses, the role of miRNA has received much attention recently. qRT-PCR is a powerful method for miRNA quantitation, but the accuracy of the method strongly depends on the appropriate reference genes. To determine the most suitable reference genes for grapevine miRNA qRT-PCR, 15 genes were chosen as candidate reference genes. After eliminating 6 candidate reference genes with unsatisfactory amplification efficiency, the expression stability of the remaining candidate reference genes under salinity, cold and drought was analysed using four algorithms, geNorm, NormFinder, deltaCt and Bestkeeper. The results indicated that U6 snRNA was the most suitable reference gene under salinity and cold stresses; whereas miR168 was the best for drought stress. The best reference gene sets for salinity, cold and drought stresses were miR160e + miR164a, miR160e + miR168 and ACT + UBQ + GAPDH, respectively. The selected reference genes or gene sets were verified using miR319 or miR408 as the target gene.